The only reason you are resigned to a simmering quietude is because you understand I am correct.
Thank you for the support! Although, please hear me when I say that it doesn’t matter whatsoever what your body type is or where you are in life - anyone can look absolutely fab in printed pants and a simple top. Sure, certain styles may be more or less flattering; but that’s a puzzle that everyone deals with. One body does not “look better in clothes” over another. Screw the media, screw advertisements, screw the disappointing and demeaning values that society has created over women’s bodies. You don’t need to change a thing to wear the clothing you want. As long as you’re confident, anything and everything will look absolutely fab.